zohbugg:

sirensongfashion:

Michael Cinco Haute Couture Fall/Winter 2013/2014 at Fashion Forward, Dubai

yes I’ll take one of everything so I can look fab as hell while I rip out the still beating heart of a man


collections that are raw as fuck ➝ tony ward f/w 2014-15

So adorable

Setahun

nayasa:

Kalo diingat-ingat lucu juga, waktu saya pindah dari Bandung ke Depok, teman-teman saya berpesan nanti kalau sesampai di Depok, jangan berhenti untuk tetap berada di dunia pendidikan, kalau bisa bikin tetap bikin sekolah sendiri, ‘sayang ilmunya…’ kata mereka beramai-ramai. Tapi apa daya, beda…

walaupun telat banget bacanya, tapi aaaaak~ terima kasih banyak ka nay sudah menemukan aku dan mengijinkan aku menjadi bagian dari keluarga ini :”) *peluk cium buat ka naaay* ;***

Why Am I Still Not Married? The Silver Lining of Being Single:

1) There Is Nothing Wrong with You!
-Allah created the beautiful, unique you, and if He decrees it, someone out there will agree to marry you just the way you are.

-So do not despair of Allah’s mercy, and remain positive that someone out there will like you and agree to marry you, in Shaa’ Allah.

-Never let others make you feel that if you are thirty-something and still not married, it is because either there is something wrong with you, or because Allah has decreed for you to forever remain single

2) Divine Wisdom behind Perceived “Delays” in Marriage
-Marriage can take place at any age in life, even at 50 or 60, as Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and many of his companions practically demonstrated.

-It is also a fact that marriage will not happen within the first 2 or 3 decades of life for every one of us. So we should give more leeway and refrain from making blanket, generalized statements about our older, single brothers and sisters.

3) Becoming Mature and Responsible Enough First
-It is not that God is not answering your du’as. Maybe He has already accepted your du’as for marriage with a righteous person, but it will actually happen practically after a few more years, when it is best and easiest for you to enter this sacred union with that person.

- He knows everything about you that even you do not know, which is called ‘the Unseen’, or “ghaib” in Arabic.

4)Da’wah Experience and Acquisition of Knowledge
-Perhaps God wants you to seek more knowledge and engage in more active da’wah work before you settle down in married life. ‪#‎These‬ precious years of your youth will never return, and In Shaa Allah, decades down the road, a more mature and wise you will cherish, like a priceless gem, every year of experience that you acquired in the fields of Islamic knowledge and da’wah before getting married.

5) Better than Early Divorce
-It could be that your being single, which is a painful trial of patience in your eyes, is a blessing in disguise that is acting as a barrier between you and worse calamities and adversities.

6) Increase in Humility
-A delay in marriage increases one’s humility, and makes one more down-to-earth and approachable by others. It also ensures that one constantly keeps turning to Allah in earnest du’as - which is something that Allah loves about His slaves!

7) Blessings Received after Hardship Are Cherished More
The more one waits for, works hard for, and remains patient for acquiring a blessing, the more one cherishes it after one receives it.And by then these precious blessings will be so much more worth the wait!


(via islamicrays)

ini pas banget buat ka oppi, jgn cediihhh

Buat yang merasa

Teruntukmu buat yang merasa…

kurasa..

ini karma dari Tuhan hingga buatku tak merasa

sekarang aku dilema, sungguh dilema

menelan pahit kesempatan-kesempatan yang sudah aku acuhkan

dengan percuma, dengan keras kepala

Tuhan dulu pernah mengetuk palu untukku, dan akhirnya aku bukanlah pilihanNya untukmu

satu kepastian akhirnya pergi, karena aku berusaha mempertahankan yang masih membuatku bimbang

satu lagi datang, dan datang lagi aku acuhkan lagi dengan percuma

alasannya masih sama, aku masih berusaha mempertahankan yang masih membuatku bimbang

sampai akhirnya kau datang dan sungguh amat menyesal aku mengacuhkanmu juga demi mempertahankan sebuah kebimbangan

tidak ada jawaban, hingga akhirnya aku mendengar kau akan menyegerakannya dengan orang lain dengan rencana yang sempat kita perbincangkan

tapi sayang, ternyata itu bukanlah rencana “kita” tapi rencanaku dan rencanamu

sekarang aku tidak tahu, apakah Tuhan marah? apakah ini balasanNya? 

apakah Tuhan dengan sengaja memperlihatkan apa yang sudah aku lakukan

mereka bahagia, tapi aku? masih terbelenggu dengan ketidakpastian yang aku buat sendiri

Buat yang merasa..


acupofmochaccino:

This.

(Source: beanboots-and-bows)